The Power of Mentoring

I know I am probably late to tea when it comes to this movie seeing it was released in 2024 but I don’t think the lessons are ever too late. I am one who takes out time to watch movies with the goal of seeing what I can grab irrespective of the genre.

So, I settled in to watch The Forge simply because it kept ringing in my head for days and let’s just say I had to succumb. What you will read from me are my thoughts and lessons from this movie which even though faith-based, I believe the lessons apply across religious divides.

Come with me.

The Forge delivers strong themes of mentorship, personal growth, and faith-based guidance, particularly emphasizing the role of men in shaping the next generation.

Here are key lessons on mentorship, especially for men and through the lens of a man:

1. The Power of Intentional Mentorship and Support System

In the movie, Joshua Moore (Cameron Arnett) takes Isaiah Wright (Aspen Kennedy) under his wing, showing that young men need intentional mentorship. This underscores the importance of experienced men guiding younger ones not just in career or skills, but in character and life purpose.

Lesson: Older men should actively mentor younger men, offering wisdom, discipline, and encouragement rather than leaving them to navigate life alone. A strong support system makes all the difference; we rise better when we have people who push and uplift us.

2. Character Development Over Quick Success

Isaiah starts aimless and directionless, much like many young men today. Through mentorship, he learns that true success isn’t just about making money or achieving status but about developing character, integrity, and faith.

Lesson: Mentors should focus on helping young men build resilience, discipline, and integrity rather than just external success.

3. Accountability is Crucial

Joshua Moore doesn’t just encourage Isaiah; he holds him accountable. He corrects him when needed, challenges him to do better, and expects commitment. A good mentor doesn’t just cheerlead—he pushes the mentee to be better.

Lesson: Men need accountability partners—mentors who can call out their weaknesses, help them overcome flaws, and encourage them toward growth.

4. The Role of Faith in Manhood and Mentorship

The movie ties mentorship with faith and spiritual growth. It shows that men are often refined through trials (hence the title The Forge), much like metal shaped by fire. True growth happens when men submit to Godly wisdom and moral principles.

Lesson: Mentorship should incorporate spiritual and moral guidance, helping young men develop strong values and a sense of higher purpose.

5. From Receiving to Giving – The Cycle of Mentorship

By the end of the movie, Isaiah doesn’t just grow—he starts to see the value of mentoring others. It highlights that mentorship is a cycle: every man should both learn from those ahead of him and teach those coming after him.

Lesson: A well-mentored man should eventually become a mentor himself, passing on the lessons he has learned.

Final Takeaway

Recently, I attended a close door event for guys called “Guyversation”. It was such an intimate event where men shared about their struggles with life. This was hosted by Solomon Ayodele(check him out on IG). I think we need more spaces like that for men to share but most importantly, older men mentoring younger men.

The Forge reminds us that manhood isn’t just about strength or independence it’s about guidance, accountability, and lifting others. Men who have experience and wisdom should take younger men under their wing, helping them find purpose, build character, and grow spiritually.

Thanks for reading. Please share your thoughts.