Hello friends,
In the past week, I have looked at the idea of chasing the cheers of others while internally you are unhappy with yourself. I don’t know where this came from but I think it stemmed from the fact that I have seen/met a lot of people who do things for the sake of what others will say whereas, within themselves, there is a bunch of unfulfillment and sadness.
In retrospect, I have been here before and I find myself sometimes going that route(this is me being honest with you); trying to keep things together from falling because I don’t want to lose the cheers of others around me or those afar. Sometimes, we are able to get this off our chest quickly by thinking thoroughly until we can make a decision. However, this thought might linger longer than we could imagine. It could last for weeks or even months depending on how quickly we resolve this since it is a battle between reality and cognition.
Do I really have an answer on how to resolve this? I’d be lying to say I have tips to share with you. At best, I’d sound motivational(this I try to avoid a lot) should I decide to share tips with you but I do promise that when I have an answer, hold me accountable to come back to you(don’t know how you’d do that though) but I do want to learn from you as well.
Have you ever found yourself in that situation where you are holding on just because of the cheers of others and not because you are sure you want to remain there? I pray thee to share if you don’t mind.
Thank you for reading. Please share with those around you.